Ramblings-Children and parents

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLIAN TO ME WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU GAIN FROM NOT ALLOWING OR PERMITTING YOUR CHILDREN TO SPEND TIME OR EVEN TALK TO THEIR FATHER? WHO DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU ARE HURTING? YOU CLAIM YOU CARE ABOUT YOUR CHILD AND THEN IN TURN HURT THEM. YES THAT’S THE ONE YOU ARE HURTING!!! THE CHILD HAS NO FAULT OF WHO THEIR PARENTS ARE THAT CHOICE WAS MADE BY YOU!!!
OVER THE PAST FEW WEEKS I HAVE HEARD ONE TOO MANY STORIES ABOUT CUSTODY AND VISITATION RIGHTS BETWEEN PARENTS.

BEING THE PRODUCT OF A TUG OF WAR BETWEEN PARENTS, I FEEL LIKE SCREAMING AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS…..GROW UP!!!! IF YOU CHOSE NOT TO BE TOGETHER FOR WHATEVER REASON, NO MATTER IF THEIR WAS FAULT OR NOT…GET OVER IT!!! LEARN HOW TO WORK TOGETHER TO PROVIDE YOUR CHILD (BECAUSE IT IS YOUR CHILD AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY) WITH ALL THAT THEY NEED.

YOUR MAIN CONCERN SHOULD BE PROVIDING ALL THE NECESSITIES FOR YOUR CHILD TO BE HEALTHY AND EDUCATED AND A DECENT HUMAN BEING!!
CHILDREN ARE VERY PERSCEPTIVE TO WHAT GOES ON AROUND THEM! SO BEFORE THE BICKERING AND THE FIGHTING BEGINS…STOP!!!!

CHILDREN ARE NOT PAWNS!!! STOP USING THEM AS SUCH!!!

BEING A SINGLE PARENT IS HARDWORK! BUT I AM GRATEFUL FOR MY MOTHER WHO DID TWICE THE WORK TO MAKE SURE WE WERE TAKEN CARE OF. AS AN ADULT I CAN NOW APPRECIATE ALL SHE DID FOR MY SISTERS AND I.

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